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INFJ Relationship Compatibility

Owing to their personality traits, INFJs are outwardly engaging and warm people, who can readily ingratiate themselves to others. While building extensive connections and quick friendships may be a thing among extraverts, this is not so for the introvert INFJs, who would rather seek high-quality, in-depth relationships. When searching for romantic partners, they would look into the emotional and intellectual aspect, openness, honesty and authenticity. This means that their ideal partners are those who would take seriously the issue of spiritual, moral, psychological and emotional personal development.

Before we continue the discussion on INFJ relationship compatibility, let us first take a look at this personality type’s strengths and weakness when it comes to relationships.

INFJ Strengths

  • They are dedicated to achieving the ultimate relationship.
  • They are affirming by nature.
  • They are usually good at communicating.
  • They are sensitive for the feelings of others.
  • They have very high expectations for themselves and other people.
  • They seriously take their commitments.
  • They are good listeners.
  • They are good at moving on after a relationship.

INFJ Weaknesses

  • They are not good with practical day-to-day needs and with money.
  • They tend to hold back part of themselves.
  • They have very high expectations for themselves and the people around them.
  • They dislike criticism and conflict.
  • They are bad at leaving unhealthy relationships.

Considering these strengths and weaknesses, INFJs have their own way of dealing with relationships with other personality types.

INFJs and SP Types (Artisans)

Relationships between INFJs and SPs are said to be filled with fun and excitement, where the former appreciates the latter’s fun-loving and spontaneous nature. As you can see, SPs typically are full of action and energy and have a strong physical presence because of their strong extraverted sensing, which is highly appreciated by INFJs as this helps them boost their sensing function. On the other hand, SPs are often impressed by the strong use of intuition by INFJs and inspired by these individuals’ insights, passion and depth. This is a perfect example of the “opposites attract” type of relationship, where partners admire each other’s strengths that would boost their own personal weakness.

However, problems can still arise, especially those having to do with the intuition (N)/sensing (S) difference, where INFJs are theoretical and abstract, while SPs are extremely practical and concrete, often having little interest in talking about their inner lives. The key to make things work is by understanding each other and appreciating each other’s strengths, amidst the differences.

INFJs and SJ Types (Guardians)

This type of pairing usually leads to enjoyable, comfortable and happy relationships, where INFJs would appreciate the responsible nature and stability of SJs, who in turn would appreciate the sincerity, passion and warmth of INFJs. Typically, SJs are a stable force in the life of INFJs, who are prone to feeling scattered, thus they will be able to manage to add some intensity and creativity in their lives with SJs as partners. Both of these personality types are very committed, take relationships seriously and concerned very much with maintaining harmony.

As for problems that may arise, they are often due to the N/S difference, where INFJs would view SJs as being overly traditional, lacking vision and boring, while SJs might get tired of INFJs’ imagination and flights of passion, as well as see them as being impractical. If they are not careful, both of these personality types could work at changing each other too much to the point where they will feel let down and unappreciated. One good way to work things out is balancing out each other’s functions and appreciating each other’s strengths.

INFJs and NT Types (Rationals)

This pairing is considered by many Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) experts to be the best, where INFJs find NTs as having similar traits as them, who are abstract and see the world of ideas, possibilities and theoretical concepts. NTs have a certain calmness and autonomy that INFJs find to be relieving, yet intriguing, as INFJs can get deeply overwhelmed with their own intense emotions and soul-searching. While NTs would see warmth, sincerity and passion in INFJs, the latter would see the former as being intellectually stimulating, intelligent and brimming with fascinating and inspiring ideas.

Though this pairing is considered as the best, of course there are still potential problems that would arise in the relationship, especially those lying in the thinking (T)/feeling (F) difference. INFJs would believe that their intuition might exasperate the ever logical NTs, and NTs may find INFJs as being overly absorbed in their feelings. Thus, it is best for both types to stay balanced understand each other.

INFJs and NF Types (Idealists)

It is stated that INFJs would do exceptionally well with NFs, where they find true soulmates with such partners. They will enjoy sharing their own inner worlds and will take good care of the emotional needs of one another. Usually, their relationship will be very intense, intimate and romantic, that it might feel as too good to be true in certain times.

However, INFJs and other NFs tend to be very concerned with each other’s feelings that they risk invading each other’s personal space. Also, they would be bound to be so intensely passionate about their goals and visions that they would put themselves into tiring each other out. And as mentioned, things can work out by understanding each other’s differences.

Final Thoughts

Generally, one huge struggles that INFJs in engaging in relationships is their natural trait of being a perfectionist and true idealist. While they are warm and affirming in nature, they also tend to become over-achievers in a relationship. They would want to be the perfect partner, but they would also want people who would try to truly know them, which mean those who are willing to listen to their ambitions and dreams. Moreover, these individuals could also passionately stick to a life of being single over dating or being married, if the one they are engaged with does not have passion or deep feelings.

Jul 8, 2016-Flow Psychology Editor
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